You sure think so.
yes, other peoples rhetoric surely can get in the way of communication.
A dig at the human egos tendency to prefer the safe activities of dissecting the past and blaming others over the harder planning for the future and being kind, but sure, it was at you, why not?
Maybe because of the "NOT YOU" at the beginning of the part you mention? I can see how when I say 'not you', you very reasonably conclude I do mean 'you', Sure.
You're the most reasonable man, after all.
I don't expect you to see it any other way. I ask to to behave differently about what you see, and double check before you unload at someone. What are you here for, community or boxing lessons? Your call. Be the change you wish to see. It's your movie.