But you did. “you need so many weapons and need to so publicity brandish them?” So no one was talking about someone having a bunch of weapons and brandishing them. You made up this hypothetical person armed to the teeth and waving them around.
The average person carrying a weapons are not brandishing them. Brandishing is largely illegal in most if not all states and not something I condone.
I don’t think they are being more macho - nor is wanting to defend yourself some how more masculine. Those who go in the direction of self protection do so for a sense of agency, not to be macho.
At any rate, I am not going to tell a woman, or anyone, how they should navigate their lives. If they feel better carrying pepper spray or what ever, then that’s up to them IMO.
If it is so little of a threat, why do people want to legislate their ability to own and/or carry brass knuckles?
Per my ETA - I think one of the disconnects here is there is an image in one’s mind about who carries weapons. Mall Ninjas. Cop wanna-bes. Basement commandos. Oh they are out there. They are ridiculous.
But the average person who takes some precautions do so out of a sense of preparedness. It is possible that something did spark a fear in them at one point (And yes, you will find examples were all of it is fear based), but the people I know who carry pepper spray or a Kubotan or a knife or martial arts or even a firearm aren’t fearful people. They do it out of a sense of preparedness, and a sense to protect themselves and their kids.
Friendliest guy I know is from the Philippines, former Navy Corpsman, carries a med kit when he’s out, and teaches kung-fu and Filipino stick fighting. Not a paranoid nut, just a guy who likes to be prepared. He looks like a normal Asian dude with a day pack - because he is just a normal dude - who is also prepared if something goes sideways.
I encourage you to ask other people you may know, vs just creating an image of what these people are like.
If you met me, you’d never guess i was a weapon owner. A giant dork? Probably.