No, a lot of the answers to you are “property damage isn’t violence on par with assaulting people.” “Par” is a term of equivalency, and Facebook is making a false equivalency.
Obviously you’re not a member of a poor minority group, because they deal with the prospects of the cops stealing from them and their cars being surrounded by aggressive cops (not to mention white supremacists without badges) every bloody day. If no-one counter-protests fascists or police misconduct, eventually that’s going to affect your life as well. That’s why antifa and BLM are acting so aggressively now, and why even someone as ridiculously privileged as myself understands that when actual right-wing populists (and their natural allies in the police) are marching in American streets and killing people it’s time to pick a side.**
What I’m seeing in your responses, though, is a lot of complacency and privilege-blindness – similar to Zuckerberg’s but without the billions of dollars and all the options for avoiding problems that buys. In my experience, it’s difficult for a lot of people to break through that mindset. That doesn’t happen through BBS debates but rather through self-reflection and hard life-lessons, so I’ll leave things there.
[* I know, I know: you don’t think so. Tens of millions of solid middle- and working-class people throughout history have lived through fascist and authoritarian regimes by keeping their heads down and being “good Germans”. But the thing about such regimes is their capriciousness in choosing whom to go after, and the equally capricious revenge taken by those who overthrow the fascists.]
[** no, this doesn’t mean blindly endorsing the violent or other destructive behaviour of the side you choose, at least if you’re opposing fascism or white supremacy. In contrast, those supporting or enabling fascism or white supremacy are implicitly endorsing those things, due to violence being implicit in those ideologies]