You too. No hard feelings.
Did I miss it? Has a man finally told us what boobs are for and how we as women should feel about them? Damn I miss all the fun!
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Look. Iâve been following your arguments and wondering two things. First, how does this even relate to the original topic? Many, or maybe all, of the women on BB think that it was wrong to single out this woman for the size of her breasts vis-Ă -vis her tank top, regardless of whom singled her out. I know I did.
Second, I personally have a problem with the first academic NIH article you cited because it was written by a plastic surgeon, and for what purpose Iâm unclear (other than which implant shape is more desirable in the previous studies that this surgeon cites). But generally plastic surgeons make money on selling things such as breast augmentation, so I suspect this very short paper was just a justification for using and selling a particular implant to his patients in Brazil.
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I agree, she was mistreated. I said so above. Who disagrees with that?
Someone made a sweeping statement about what breasts are not for. That one rubbed me the wrong way. I posted a quickly googled article from what seemed to be a legit source. I agree itâs not the best source, but it did refer to other papers, which presumably referred to other papers, etc., that were vetted, reviewed, etc., in other legit journals. Is the NIH not a prima facie legitimate source? It raises a meta question about what is ârealâ knowledge that wonât be answered easily.
Anyhoo, isnât it usually the case discussions go off on tangents? Or are you telling me about another thing a thing is not for?
Your question was clearly and eloquently answered, actually. By @chenille. And you said you didnât understand it. What I donât understand is your apparent willingness to defend to the death something you now say you âknow nothing aboutâ and just googled. Might you pause for a moment to consider that other people here actually do know something about the topic?
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My boobs ARE totally for you though. In case youâre interested. 
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No, no, no⌠see @manybellsdown doesnât get to decide what her boobs are for⌠thatâs for men with phds to decide! /s
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Actually, yes. We are supposed to stay on topic according to the guidelines. But if youâre driving trollies, youâre doing it correctly! 
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I amended my comment so that I might be enlightened.
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Youâve blown that comment out of proportion; it wasnât anywhere near as sweeping and categorical as youâre making it out to be. Later in the comment, for example:
So clearly that statement didnât mean âno oneâs boobs should ever be enjoyed by anyone in any way in any situation ever, ever.â And interpreting it that way seems contrived to manufacture an argument where there is none.
Try to argue what was meant, not parse what was said word by word.
Apologies, @anon61221983, if Iâve put words in your mouth! I will mantreat to the manlines and manitor the conversation from manfar.
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No need to apologize⌠sometimes you just need to manslate to maneese. I understand!
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Iâm just logging man-hours for my manternship, until I can become a licensed manterpreter.
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Check out your local high school to see if they offer night classes.
Chicks dig guys with an education.
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Well, thatâs mantastic! You are providing a manstarful service to the world!
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But I did. The ones about EvoPsych pushed me to read more, and I addressed it aaaaaabove. The ones telling me what things things are and are not for, I pushed back on. I understand if the comment threading has made a hash of it.
stay curious
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I thought in the context of a story about humiliation âah but not all sexist assholesâ was a good argument to make, because if I donât speak up for the sexists assholes, who will?
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Maybe you should seek a primary source?
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Here, youâve conflated evo psych with evolutionary biology (or you deliberately moved the goalpost, but Iâm giving you the benefit of the doubt).
This was a response to: [quote=âPhrenological, post:104, topic:78345, full:trueâ]
Probably because EvoPsych isnât hard science, existing to confirm preexisting social conservative narratives. Evolutionary Biology is valuable. EvoPsych is a bunch of just-so stories that found themselves in academia along Parapsychology, grasping for relevancy but finding plenty of media attention along the way.
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Those are two different disciplines. Furthermore, you flat-out dismissed @chenille when (s)he wrote a very specific refutation of your points, saying you didnât understand it. Which I think is frankly nonsense; if you can understand these evo psych papers youâre googling you should be perfectly capable of comprehending that post.
If we want to go the route of âwhat nature says breasts are forâ, then why do women nursing in public get so much pushback? I mean, that is 100% their legitimate biological function. Why is ânatureâ only pulled out to justify men being allowed to stare at/tell women to cover breasts? Think about that for a bit and you might begin to see some of the flaws in evo psych.
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Then why are you arguing about the subject? There are actual scientists, psychologists, and professors on this forum. There are even more people here who have at least studied in some related field. Why is it so important to you to argue from a proud point of ignorance? Why not listen to what others know about the subject instead?
Why do you have to be right and everyone else wrong, even when youâve admitted you donât know how wrong or right you are?
Being ignorant isnât a big deal at all. Weâre all ignorant on many subjects. But someone like you, literally every single person on this thread knows more than you do on this topic, and instead of appreciating the fact that youâve got a chance to learn something new, youâre so mediocre that you think by googling a few links you can appear smarter than everyone else. Weâre not fooled.
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