Previous generations signed up at 16 to shoot at nazis, I signed up for a comedy forum whose members low key stalked me for almost two decades.
Most recently, he somehow found out through the grapevine myself plus some members of my cult reported the tweets that literally got him banned from Twitter.
I had returned to the forums while in a domestic abuse situation. The culture had changed in a positive way, IMHO, but the main thing dragging them down was Lowtax and his hangers on.
When I found out he was literally beating his partner, I ended up messaging someone I had a (playful) feud with – I wished them well, told them slapfights should stay online, and that I regret giving a single fucking dime to support the lifestyle of an abuser.
I was especially hurt since he made a big stink about dealing with pain issues – someone I knew also struggled with chronic pain, and I was sympathic that it can make you, for lack of better phrasing… cranky. So I took money out of my meager emergency fund to support the forums (and by extension, him).
Honestly, I’m not sad he’s dead. When a friend pointed out the news, my response was “he’s an abuser, and he’s in the ground with Jeffey Epstein now, I’m going to go get a cortado”.
Like a lot of people, I flirted with being a reactionary when younger, as a response to trauma, abuse, and feelings of alienation. But I also worked tirelessly to help women, POC, and and LGBTQ folks get internships, job and professorships not… persistently used my influence and wealth to harass, degrade, and abuse the weak.
I sometimes am too edgy in my humor, but… it pains me people like him get a platform and wealth, while others, well intentioned, can struggle.
Anyways, SA was a huge part of my late teens / early 20s. A goon from state advised me on grad schools. Another gave me an intimate portrait of a local FFRDC’s insider threat program. A third strongly advised me not to go to law school (sound advice).
Other goons did things like do revenge porn on a friend, threaten to kill me (online), and in once instance (at Lowtax’s urging possibly) physically attacked me IRL.
I’m sad his kids will be without a dad, but he was truly a horrible person, not a troubled soul who just wanted people to laugh.