And just to further illustrate the whole “derail” thing.
In a thread about a woman owning a motorcycle:
So obviously replying to that or any of the other of dozens of comments in other threads would be a “derail” or “off topic” on my end. Though no one seems to care about the original off topic post.
So hopefully you can see my frustration when defending a right is seen as derailing or “problematic”, but attacking it is not.