Understanding vulvas: what do they really look like?

Pretty sure most guys are aware of the infinite variety of snatch out there thanks to amateur porn.

Mulva…??

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What’s to understand? They’re noisy and annoying.

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I was gonna say the people who died on 9/11.

Wow. I have to say those labiaplasty before and after photos were pretty eye opening. All of the labia minora in the before photos looked rather ordinary, and certainly not something in need of cosmetics surgury. The Great Wall of Vagina (plaster casts of vulvas, really) shows how rather unremarkable the before photos are.

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Well, being the gay guy I was speaking of, and not a trans man, I would only assume a trans man would know a few things about vulvas.

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Does womens’ knowledge of their own genitalia begin and end in high school?

Honest to Dog, I watched this movie as a kid and it spurred my to get my advertising degree.

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I dunno… Boxy Buttgood sounds like a stage name, maybe burlesque…

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I don’t think I said that. I think you are a troll. You can piss off now.

Er, excuse me?

I’m asking an honest question. It seems bizarre to me that so many grown women in NYC would be utterly clueless about their own genitalia.

I’m asking if for most women, in your experience, there’s a lack of any education, whatsoever, about the structure of their own genitalia. And wondering why that is.

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I would be curious to know how the views on that video divided between the different genders… compared to a similar video on male genitalia. Not that we can’t easily predict how it would show a depressing lack of willingness to learn in the male sex.

Possibly. It’s a lot harder for a woman to see her own lady parts than it is for a dude to see his dick. It does stick out after all.

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Vulva’s?

they’re boxy but they’re good.

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You’re a little late to that joke man. Great minds think alike and all that jazz.

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How many times has that Volvo come now? It’s just showing off at this point.

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This is your honest question:

And your replacement honest question:

And moving from the difference between your questions to what you are asking: How would I know what happens for most women? There’s something like 3 and a half billion of us out here. I don’t presume to speak for the rest.

I can however speak for myself. And I’m telling you that if it weren’t for the helpful pamphlet that Kotex included in each box of tampons, I wouldn’t have known anything useful until I came across Our Bodies, Ourselves. I was already past high school, out and on my own by then, so maybe my early 20s?

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Thank you! That’s much more helpful than calling me names and telling me to piss off. And yes, clarifying a question is not only possible, but accepted.

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My theory is that dudes are intimately familiar with theirs because not only is it just OUT there, they’re handling it every day. And in a public restroom or locker room, they’re probably seeing a variety of them. Vulva-owners, on the other hand, have to make a special effort to really see it. It’s not something we do often. If someone tells us it’s “weird”, we’re likely to believe them because what do we have to compare it to?

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