Well, that's your first mistake.
We're bad about folding in general. Laundry will sit in the dryer for days before getting extricated. Sometimes it'll be extricated straight into a laundry basket unfolded, just to make room for the next load. Sometimes the laundry takes ages to get folded at all. I always fold my stuff (eventually), but since we own relatively few things that require ironing, we usually don't sweat the folding too much. Especially the kids' stuff. They care not at all about wrinkles, which anyway tend to disappear within minutes after being put on.
My wife has never in her life ironed anything. When ironing does come up, it's my job. And the last time I did it was the tablecloth for Thanksgiving. Fortunately, my job doesn't require me to wear pressed shirts.
I'm a regular Rumpled Stiltskin.
ETA: what kind of San Diegan are you, anyway, Mike? Ironing t-shirts indeed!