If you are seriously arguing that was flag and deletion worthy, so is 90% of this thread, and a good portion of all internet discussion. My point is that the Mod is enabling hypersensitivity of a level that is not appropriate in an open forum.
i respect questions and requests, not orders, from equals.
Iām not going to repeat myself, and I am sorry your feelings were hurt. You have not communicated your message of the moderators enabling hypersensitivity well, I cannot find that message in the tone or body of your initial post which instead seems focused on favored users singling other users out.
false equivalence.
Maybe answer the question about your own behavior rather than changing the subject to 90% of all behavior.
Your behavior is at issue here. Accept that.
Youād like me to accept that my behavior is questionable?
SHOW ME WHAT THAT ACCEPTANCE LOOKS LIKE WHEN YOU DO IT
hint: it looks like answering questions asked of you, by people you treat as equals.
90% of us are here for that.
Youāre being too obtuse for me, I donāt recall an non-rhetorical question. Iāve been posting in a variety of forums since before there was a WWW, and Iāve never heard of anyone getting flagged and deleted in a forum for adults for such a mild sentence.
I see three easy answers: Yes, No, or Maybe. YMMV. I lean towards saying yes, in context you seemed TO ME to behave more hostile than you a) realize b) are willing to admit to publicly.
Do you think that maybe, in context, you came across as more hostile than you currently think you did? I do. I really truly do think you came off as hostile, and you now seem hostile to learning that about yourself.
Are you actually empathy challenged? Drinking perhaps? Autistic? Iām hoping for an out that doesnāt cause your behavior to come across as soā¦ hateful. Calling people obtuse as you manage not to admit a single faultā¦
I mean really.
You want to improve the tone of the conversation or donāt you?
That is all.
itās just the worst when the free ice cream isnāt your favorite flavor.
You should totally ask for double your money back
Iām asking you if you know it when you see it and it happens to be you, or do you only see it when itās other people?
Not that I expect you to address or acknowledge a question, as you go on about respect and how it really works while calling me āteacherā.
By reading or glancing over any portion of this comment you agree to the Eula which asserts you can never reference this or any other post I may write or have written.
Time to take a breath.