Awesome.
Actually, no I didn’t and can’t. Can you countenance that extrapolating experience of the US to the rest of the world and assuming that experience there is just the same as the US is just a form of cultural arrogance? I won’t ask you to acknowledge it. Just think about it.
I made the point that born in the UK, trying to escape poverty by means of access to training for the professions and being poor, white and male is jointly the worst hand to be dealt along with being poor, black and male. It was only access that enabled the climb and I played on hard mode from the start. Harder than being female and harder than being a POC (with the exception I’ve pointed out twice already). And class signifiers stick around until error and observation teaches how they work, so a poor background remains a handicap in the job market too. But yes, I am privileged now, I freely acknowledge that.
My children are likewise highly privileged. They have relatively affluent happily married (now) middle class parents who know how the system works in several different countries and who have high expectations. That’s a great start in life. Being mixed race (as they are) or even a POC is a small handicap if it comes with middle class in the UK or NZ. They won’t ever know what it’s like to have the shit kicked out of them for their hand-me-down clothes and then go home to a leaky house with no central heating and roadkill protein on the table (me) or have to spend 4 hours working fields before school and do homework hungry by candlelight after a low protein rice meal (my wife, who had an even worse childhood in the developing world. It sucks worse being poor there). Yeah, I know, insert Monty Python Four Yorkshiremen sketch here and I’ll totally own it.
But my point is that being affluent, male and white may be the height of privilege but being poor, white and male is also way down at the bottom of the pile (see footnote!) and getting worse. So judging the set of all white males on the basis that you (actually we all) have a legitimate beef with rich white males is counterproductive.
So an inability to express yourself in an approved manner is a bar to participation and means you can safely be disregarded?
The badly expressed post which gets struck down with foul language, a snarky hash tag or a knowing .gif may be hiding someone like me, but with less ability to self censor and a short fuse. At University my only safe response to the middle class POC females with a car that Daddy bought who audibly bemoaned their lot, was simply to get on my bicycle and go to my part-time job. It put food on the table. And there to stew resentfully because they didn’t have the slightest clue how the other half lives. Engaging could only result in accusations of racism and sexism and —maybe even worse— in exposing myself as the pikey I really was. It’s only now I know my children will inherit the advantages of our current success that the resentment has faded. Without success, no voice and disregarded, the only recourse for the poor and particularly poor white males seems to be far right politics, violence and the kind of redpill crap linked to above. And surprise, surprise there’s no shortage of all that crap around. That’s not a good outcome.
That still leaves the super rich elephant in the room. Taxation systems that convert their selfish trust funds, stock portfolios, jets, super yachts and multiple houses into public healthcare; good schools with high expectations for all; free, well stocked public libraries with books and internet access; and scholarships for higher education based on merit and potential would benefit everyone. Surely arguing about differential access to the morsels of the unfairly stacked system we have now is pointless until that infrastructure is there?
BTW if you want the stats that back up my assertions regarding entry to entry to medical training in the UK, google the BMA/UK Equality Commission reports on ‘Equality and Diversity in UK Medical Schools’ — they’re probably online. Mine’s hard copy.
More general data for NZ is summarised by Easton, B. in “Ethnicity, gender, socioeconomic status and educational achievement: An exploration” for the Economic and Social Trust on New Zealand. If I’d actually been born here, I’d have been higher up the pecking order. Things really suck for socio-economically deprived Pasifika and Māori people.
Footnote: At least everywhere I’ve worked. I’ve not lived in the US and I’m not arrogant enough to extrapolate my experience to there. It may be that being white and male there is so universally awesome that those are the only signifiers needed to pigeonhole an American.