So it’s the association of marijuana with anything hispanic/mexican at all that is bothersome to you, not so much that it’s necessarily a word commonly understood to be an ethnic/religious slur equating mexicans with a greater drive for getting high than the pursuit of supposedly more moral pursuits like revering the virgin mary?
This is a completely different thing than saying that the word Marijuana is an ethnic slur.
And while I do appreciate your efforts to demonize me by guessing at what my responses would be if confronted with someone offended in “meatspace”, that’s a ridiculous avenue to pursue. Unless you can secretly read my mind, you have absolutely no idea what my response would be. But, for the sake of argument, let me enlighten you: My response would be a simple “I’m sorry. I did not realize that you felt like “Marijuana” was a racially charged term/ethnic slur. I would be more than happy to use the word “cannabis””. To use my example of the word “oriental”, when confronted by rabid high schooler about the word, my response was “really? I’m really not offended by it, but if you’d rather I use the word “asian” with you, then fine”. I made an active effort to say “asian” in front of her, but it did get comical at times when names of companies and restaurants etc… came up. (Oriental Trading Company, Oriental Seafood Palace etc…)
I get that there are definitely racist origins to the word, and a racist history to the war on “Cannabis”, and definitely racist application of the “war on drugs”, and unfortunate side effects in Mexico to the prohibition here, but I just don’t get think that self censoring to use a “non-hispanic” word is going to effectively alter any of this. It certainly isn’t going to change history, and whitewashing a phrase isn’t going to alter the economic realities that directly cause the misapplication of the “war on drugs” or the flow of cash across the border to fuel organized crime.
Again, there is a difference between the arguments that “Marijuana” is currently understood to be an ethnic slur (which I still do not believe it is currently understood to be, regardless of etymology/origins), and the argument that due to numerous unfortunate side effects of the “war on drugs” that it would be best not to associate “cannabis” with any particular ethnic group. The first I don’t believe to be true in common usage, the second I definitely agree with.
But in this case, since you have made your origins clear “us (Mexicans)”, I would be more than happy to use the word “Cannabis” rather than “Marijuana” in this conversation out of respect for your sensitivities. Honestly can’t say that this will apply in “meatspace” when others are using the latter rather than former phrase, but it’ll at least be an interesting subject to broach with Hispanic friends and acquaintances.