The one thing a man should never say to a woman in bed

“Seminal” is the word you seek.

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“The talkativeness of women has been gauged in comparison not with men but with silence. Women have not been judged on the grounds of whether they talk more than men, but of whether they talk more than silent women.”

http://www.pbs.org/speak/speech/prejudice/women/

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I suspect that they include so many tentacles that you are distracted from the rapiness.

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I was referring to traditional Japanese art, not hentai, although the first example of tentacle porn was in the traditional style.

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I am not convinced that there is any distinction between the ukiyo-e genre (including “Dream of the Fisherman’s WIfe”), which was the cheap mass-production kitsch of its day; and contemporary hentai. Why is one “traditional art” and not the other?

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I was actually referring to her encouraging you.

OK, we only have four days left.

Let’s make some assumptions.

A) both parties to the act gave a vested interest in a functional erection.

B) both parties want an orgasmic end to the act.

C) neither parties have other agendas.

If we can accept this assumption, then surely the failure to complete the act is both parties responsibly…equally?

So where does the neurotic response come from?

It would call the ( transactional ) game.

Because that was an actual woodcut, while I don’t think a lot of woodcuts can be found in Weekly Shonen Jump.

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Woodcuts can be very painful, and whoever decided to call Ulmus rubra the “Slippery Elm” was vastly exaggerating its degree of lubrication.
But perhaps I am over-sharing.

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You might want to wear a backbrace.

I wouldn’t say it’s a struggle, but I would say it’s a little weird to see guys talking about the male condition being accused of “mansplaining”, though not as weird as that time I saw someone accuse Oprah of mansplaining.

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fuck this thread and everything in it.

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Narcissism doesn’t only belong to the male gender. I’d be more than happy to introduce you to the female N I met last year. You want a healthy serving of “emotional devaluation”? She’ll give it to ya.

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Even Thomas the Tank Engine?

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I always say that the elephant in the living room is that many of those horrible misogynists probably had a NPD mother.

Ahem: To say that men have generally been socialized to the extent that many of them enact common egregious tendencies is not to say that they all enact them, nor to say that no women display them.

That doesn’t usually seem to need stating, but then I remember that sometimes it does.

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TA is part of it, but those rapid changes of role and affect in the Karpman Drama Triangle are associated with mental illness, and that gets glossed over. .

Oh and Karpman has a new self published book, probably because he got pissed at the horrible hack job of “The Power Of T.E.D.”

… also note that merely mentioning that a branch of psychology exists prompts one person to say it’s an “excellent topic for a different thread” while someone else pops a mental circuit breaker. And that also would be an excellent topic for a different thread.