How much, though?
Does it hurt her as much as a billy club to the face, a boot the neck, or a bullet in one’s back?
Does it hurt as much as living with the knowledge that one has less rights just because of the color of one’s skin?
Does it hurt as much as every news story telling me yet another POC has been shot and or killed by the police; because once again, some nosy-ass power-trippin’ busybody actively decided to weaponize LEOs’ already egregious propensity for lethal violence?
By all means, please do enlighten me as to how terrible “the pain” really is…