Yes, but the public criticism of Jack Thompson wasn’t about what he had for breakfast, it was about public positions he took. When you take a public position on a subject, your position is open to public criticism. It really doesn’t matter how well known she was before this.
I was saying precisely the opposite. I think maybe there was a misunderstanding? You talked about not releasing a tape of a police shooting before of possible outrage and I assumed you meant the police not releasing it, so I didn’t see how that was comparable.
But your response to me was to a post where I was describing why I called him an asshole, so I responded defending why I called him an asshole. And I actually do think people should be told off for being assholes.
Telling your friends how upset you are with someone is a pretty benign way to work through your feelings. Posting something in a public forum is a little less so. When your forum post gets deleted making a blog to post it seems is starting to seem a little less benign. Being unaware of the insane threats bubbling below the surface of the people you are communicating the information to could be benign. Being obviously aware of that and continuing to wear the T-Shirt is showing that your feelings are more important to you than those threats to the other person. I’ve been through plenty of breakups and I’ve been pretty upset about them and I can’t imagine wanting to try to publicly shame someone who I broke up with or damage their career (going in public to say someone slept with their boss?) or continuing any behaviour after I learned it was causing them to be threatened or harassed. None of that is benign.
If “this type of speech” is complaining that your ex cheated on you by making a blog and naming them and the people they slept with, and then then yes I will absolutely stand by the fact that it should be condemned even if true. And if that “type of speech” extends to leaving the blog up after they have received threats related to what you wrote, then I’ll double down on “condemn away.”
There are lots of kinds of true speech that we should condemn. Doxxing is speaking the truth, but it’s also a malicious attack. How far does someone have to go before they really should draw the line? Would publishing her home address have been fine, her social security number, banking information? Could he then say, “Hey, those people who stole her money weren’t me.”
Obviously there is a line somewhere about communicating the truth being harmful. I think that talking about who slept with who without their consent crosses that line.