Personally, I’d ask them. If I can’t find one to ask, probably not terribly relevant to me and my own business.
Personally, I’d ask them. If I can’t find one to ask, probably not terribly relevant to me and my own business.
Well, IDK whether Borderers is one or not (perhaps you know that they are not?), but they were the person using a term in a way that didn’t quite mesh with my own understanding. Speaking as an enby person, I always think it’s my own business to learn about how other queer people prefer their associated terminology to be used, rather than just remaining ignorant.
Personally, I’D ASK THEM. Probably not terribly relevant to me or MY OWN BUSINESS.
Assuming, of course, they’re queer.
I can’t say, for that person. But I wouldn’t assume it’s MY BUSINESS to know that.
Personally, I’D ASK THEM. Probably not terribly relevant to me or MY OWN BUSINESS.
You’d ask Borderers if they were intersexed to determine whether or not you could ask them whether or not people with intersex conditions counted as cis? That seems intrusive to me.
So you just don’t bother to learn about these things until you piss someone off enough that they correct you, because proactively seeking knowledge is NOT YOUR BUSINESS? And the people who feel too awkward or non-confrontational to correct you just have to put up with it?
You seem incredibly mad about me attempting to correct a flaw in my knowledge, and I’m not sure why. Borders was nice enough to give me a pleasant and explanatory response, for which I duly thanked them, and I don’t get why you felt the need to speak up or what contribution you thought you were making.
I can’t respond to your assumptions.
I’m going back to minding my own business, and will recommend a third time that you give that a try! I think you’re pretty far off base here, and I am not interested in the provocation.
Alex Jones & Milo go on a play date. No one knows who Milo is.
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