Same here; ‘Bitter Bitch Syndrome’ never solved any problems.
We can talk about accountability and culpability once we’re no longer in danger of imploding, right this fucking moment.
Like I said, I have to be my own ‘mental cheerleader’ everyday, just to keep on going. (That’s much harder than it sounds, being that I’m not naturally ‘an optimist.’)
The road ahead isn’t easy and the fight is ugly… but it’s not hopeless, unless we just give up and let the fuckers win without a fight.
And for me that’s simply not an option; I’ve survived too much and come too far to just “lay down and die.”