Mama (and Papa), don’t raise your sons to be shitbags.
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Free speech has always been cover for racism, homophobia, etc but it’s also cover for criticism of those things. Hate speech could easily be the suggestion that women should be allowed to read in a redpill handmaid future.
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This needs to be a real song; stat.
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We live in a baseball-bat fantasy culture, where rape-apologist a-holes wish they were important enough to be smacked in the head with classic wood bat.
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Expression of this thought is probably borderlining the bb standards:
Unlike “all feminists”, he may not “want to be raped”, but as he lacks all empathy and understanding, the experience could provide healing to him.
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How hard is it to get consensual sex? Just go into a bar, on Tinder, or even pay for a sex worker. Or just jerk it. This whole concept of “men can’t help themselves” is just so alien to me. Rather he’s a vile person who wants to abuse women out of principle.
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Not only is this comment utterly vile, it’s also fundamentally incoherent.
Nobody wants to be raped. Lack of consent is the entire definition.
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The truth of course is that rape has absolutely nothing to do with a guy’s ability to have consensual sex. Take porn star James Deen—he has spent his entire adult life having sex with beautiful women for a living and yet a number of women have come forward accusing him of sexual assault.
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this might be a little off topic, only i’m watching sense8 right now, and it strikes me how painful it must be for the wachowskis – in many ways working to advance more understanding about gender and self – to have “red pill” overtaken by people so fearful of gender and self.
it seems that neither mra’s nor white supremacists have much in the way of culture that they can use for themselves. instead, they wind up taking things from other people and using them as their own.
never mind. i guess that’s just imperialism in a nutshell.
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Unfortunately, it’s not that simple. Consensual sex is not what rapists and rape apologists are after. It’s domination (non-consensual of course, otherwise that would be bdsm, which is okay I guess), just like a murdering maniac’s interest is seeing the fear in his victim’s eyes. Those people are mentally ill, a fact our society wants to ignore for some inexplicable reason.
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If it gets its way it will eventually just be known as The Party.
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Um. Rape isn’t about sex, it’s about POWER. Both my rapists were men I knew; one was my late, 2nd ex-husband, the other, a boyfriend. There was no violence involved. They were men with serious self-esteem issues, which I unfortunately didn’t recognize until it was too late.
I can’t go any further than that here wiithout getting banned, I think. Plus, I could explain it all I want to you, but I can’t understand it for you.
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Ewwww, that makes it sound like a slimy, poison-emitting creature…oh wait…
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Actually, it can be pretty hard for some people (men and women) to get consensual sex with another being. The center for disease control regularly finds that about 15-20% of singles aged 18-40 had zero partners in the past 12 months. Results in other developed countries are similar.
But that is something completely unrelated to rape. It would seem that the men who find it pretty hard to find a consensual partner usually have low self esteem and/or some difficulties with social interactions. This is a direct consequence of the roles assigned to their gender in the dating dance. Probably some people in this thread will find counter examples, but it stands to reason that, statistically speaking, men who have low self esteem and/or are awkward at social interactions find it difficult to find a partner in a bar or on tinder (this were the examples cited).
OTOH, rapists (at least the ones who got caught, we don’t know about the ones who did not) usually have exaggeratedly high self esteem and often are quite adept at social interactions. Most rapes happens from known social contacts and by social manipulation.
I would therefore venture that the opposite of what is presented here is true: it is actually within the men who find it the easiest to find casual sex and who have the most sex overall that rapists are found. We actually have had a striking example earlier in the thread of a porn star who got convicted of repeat rape.
Conversely, the men who have the least sex, the ones who go through years of rejection and abstinence are probably the least likely to become rapists. Which is quite the contrary to what “red pill” advocate would have us believe: that if a man does not find relief he will turn to violence. That does not appear to be true.
I have no idea what happens of the 15-20% of single women who do not have sex.
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I’ve never thought about making a human centipede. I do not know anyone who has ever thought about making a human centipede. I never even saw the movie The Human Centipede.
For some reason I am thinking about it now. Volunteers?
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Presuming they’re heterosexual, they either go without and masturbate, or they go without and don’t masturbate.
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Well… Yes, obviously. I mean: I don’t know whether it is linked to another social behavior. Maybe I’ll explain.
For women, low self-esteem is linked with an increase of casual sex, unwanted pregnancies, etc… But we don’t know (or at least I don’t know) whether low sexual activity is linked to anything. One could imagine, for example, that it is mainly women dependent from religious groups who do not have sex. Or, one could imagine that it is mainly strong women who do not want to submit to men and concentrate on their career. One could imagine plenty of things, we just don’t know.
Neither do we know much about women who have many casual partners. We know that women with low self-esteem tend to have more casual partners, but the opposite may not be true. Amongst the population of women with many casual partners we could have all the women with low self esteem and also plenty of women with high self esteem. We don’t know that.
All the statistics we have come from studies designed to understand the spread of STDs. People at the CDC design their study to find risky behaviors (leading to STDs and unwanted pregnancies). They don’t have money to study the rest. OTOH, they have pretty accurate statistics about the sexual behaviors of interest, because they have the money to ask really a lot of people (compared to other social studies) and can recoup their data with other medical data.
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I’m pretty sure most bad feelings about sex are around expectation. Men are told they should be laying pipe all day every day, and that’s it’s abnormal to do something like want to be a doctor and focus on that. They are also told that everything they do is for sex, that they should always be thinking about sex, and in many different ways that women are asking for it and like to play at saying no.
I can’t speak for women, but I know my wife was continuously told she needed to build her life around men being sex maniacs and that she should be a good girl that lets him do his thing and find joy in womanly things like cleaning and raising children. Fortunately, her family is generations deep into a matriarchy and her family’s message stuck with her immediately.
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Social conditioning is a kick in the head.
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