Alternatives to "Resting Bitch Face"

or an unnatural selection challenge: breed a smaller camel

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Or puree the camel and then pour it.

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This whole thread has devolved into a black-vs-white shouting match, with absolutists on both sides and it stinks.

The best summary could be: ham-fisted statements met with mockery and mean-spirited attacks, which in turn begat belligerence. Who could have predicted THAT?

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Unicorn break:

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my favorite unicorn chaser:

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a gendered product - nearly on-topicā€¦

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If itā€™s ā€œjuniorā€ sizing, the XL will barely fit an average-size woman (where I am counting myself as average-sized, at 5 foot 5 and about 150.)

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I donā€™t think this is a good characterization or a good summary of the thread.

Let me reiterate the series of events we started with:

  1. A guy came into the thread to complain that this problem which pertains to essentially only women was not a real problem and should be ignored.
  2. A woman responded to say that since he is not a woman and therefore not affected by the problem that his opinion on it probably doesnā€™t rate.
  3. The guy recognized the privilege-based argument and tried to forestall it by derailing into a debate about the concept of privilege in general.

Then that guy and a few others doubled down on the ā€œprivilege arguments are always invalidā€ bandwagon by insisting, despite all evidence to the contrary, that men are being ā€œderided for being menā€.

I think a fairer characterization of the thread is: a man objected to discussion of a feminist issue, and then objected to arguments from male privilege in general, and then threw a temper tantrum when he was challenged on it. Others backed or opposed him according to their pre-existing biases.

Maybe I am also an ā€œabsolutistā€, but Iā€™m willing to listen to why my characterization is not accurate.

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I think you overestimate the capabilities of early 1st century CE technology, especially in a small, backward state like Palestine.

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Depending on how you decide what a ā€˜needleā€™ is, itā€™s not necessarily that hard. Some British aristocrat made this needle to ensure his place in heaven (or win a bet, or something).
The Needle was built sometime between 1730-1745. Legend has it that the 2nd Marquis of Rockingham built it to win a bet that he could drive a galloping coach and horses through the eye of a needle. It sits on the prominent ridge running between...

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Please see @anon15383236 's post above. Hint; it isnā€™t intended to work quite like that.

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Itā€™s funny, the first time I heard this phrase I was on a date with a girl who wanted to reassure me that she ā€œjust had resting bitch faceā€ and wasnā€™t disinterested in the date. I told her that I had never heard that phrase before and asked it it was a Thing. She informed me that it was more than quirky personal slang. I told her that in my opinion the vast majority of men have this, but itā€™s not a Thing because men donā€™t have to smile for no reason if they donā€™t want to. I still hold to that idea.

I propose not naming it at all.

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Wait, I thought the purpose of the BBS was to miss the point and pull in side-topic digressions as often as possibleā€¦

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I do too (and thanks for getting things back on topic).

The only reason it is a Thing for women is because their natural state in public is supposed to be a cheerful one. Which is why so many men think itā€™s perfectly okay to tell them to put on a smile (baby!), turn that frown upside down! and so on.

Itā€™s hilarious to see how a lot of men react when a woman turns the tables and tells THEM to put on a smile. (And please, no missing the point, guys, by telling me that you smile all the time in public, that you tell both guys and gals to smile, and so on).

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This whole thing is getting me down. Itā€™s like someone poisoned the well but everyone would prefer to talk about how mean it is for the people who drank from that well to throw up on that guyā€™s nice shoes.

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ā€œYou are such an ass/idiotā€ faceā€¦

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FWIW, there is actually a purpose to gendered t-shirts, because the womenā€™s version has a more hourglass shape instead of being a straight drop.

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I meant something different: only female sizes are sold at all.

I didnā€™t get Amazonā€™s list - the light grey looks as if it not selectable. untrue. oops.

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Making the phrase gender-neutral is one thing, but isnā€™t the whole premiseā€”that oneā€™s face should be reassuring to the viewer at all timesā€”in itself pretty stupid?

(And, come to that, isnā€™t that premise at least a little gendered, since we put so much more pressure on women and girls to appear conventionally attractive?)

Meanwhile, since I am a prime example of the phenomenon, I submit:

ā€œSour Default Faceā€

and

ā€œPhysical Reality Is Inherently Irritating Faceā€

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