Then I’d suggest that you don’t use the term “identity politics.” It’s a dogwhistle term for “these whiny minorities who want equality instead of staying in their place.” When you use it the way you did, you give it power and oxygen. Edit: My bad. I attributed words to @reallySorryAboutThat that they didn’t write. However, the below stands.
Also, the way you responded to @anon73430903, you made it very clear that you don’t consider feminism a valid position, regardless of the words you used. It was dismissive. Which was exactly their point about class reductionism. Thank you for demonstrating it in a practical setting, I guess?