This is obviously staged.
This very thing happens on a nightly basis all around the world.
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Do tell; why do you automatically think the woman in the story is lying?
Also Iām kinda already over some of the dudes in this thread immediately trying to center this story around themselves:
So what if YOU are happily coupled up and havenāt been in the dating scene for years?
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wimmin be lyinā! /s
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Why do you think that? This is a completely believable scenario and the womanās discomfort is very real. I suppose she could just be a stellar actress but my money is on the controlling asshole being real.
I wish she had felt like she could just leave 
she shouldnāt have had to put up with that
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Well if it is not staged, it certainly is weird the same guyās voice is in all of her videos. Same guy in the Supermarket, same guy in the gym, etc.
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Soā¦ no actual evidence, then?
Everything is a hoax, or a stunt for attention; I get it.
None of the horrific life experiences that women (and Black folks and LGBTQ+ folks etc) post about are true - itās all just us āoverreactingā and trying to make men look bad. Constantly.
āItās all in out heads,ā reallyā¦
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Or she uses a vocal distortion tool because she isnāt mean? Or sheās afraid the guys will retaliate if she doesnāt change their voices. Or she has a friend say what the guys said as an overlay to the video instead of tech disguise.
Seriously. Why is is it so unbelievable to you that a guy would act like that? Why go straight for saying itās staged and then go looking thru her other videos for evidence?
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In my experience, many people only believe what they actively WANT to believe.
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This is important especially if you live in a state that requires both parties consent to an audio recording. (California is two-party consent state.)
(I know that you know, @Kii 
)
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BBS rules prevent from replying to this as Iād like. Please read through the thread.
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Evidence in case she turns up dead.
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Iām not saying that this does not happen. Iām just saying it sounds fake. The guy sounds like he is micād and speaking as if he knows he is being recorded (speaking loud and clear, putting on a certain tone).
Since I never got a real answer from the other guy, Iāll ask you:
WHY do you just automatically assume that this situation didnāt actually happen?
Just because many women are āparanoid,ā doesnāt mean that misogyny isnāt out to get us.
Not just on dates; whenever exercising, shopping, or being in any public space.
People who immediately assume it must be fake are part of the problem; fish donāt see water.
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I didnāt automatically assume this didnāt happen! I went to watch the video with full confidence that it actually did. Until I heard the guy speak. And he sounds like someone who is not good at acting, acting.
Why are people assuming the worse of me for asking a question? The question is does he sound off to anyone else? No? Ok, sounds a bit off to me.
Is everything on the internet real to you?
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Iām guessing that you didnāt bother reading the previous comments before adding your own valuable two cents:
Itās not about me, either.
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The guy sounded fake to me tooā¦ Just like a guy acting fake to manipulate another person though. Like some one at the end pretending not to be insecure and angry over lack of control. Considering being fake is what the video is aboutā¦
So I guess what Iām saying is even though this is a video on TikTok itās also a fact that real people in the real world also sound fake and put on all the damn time.
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Weāre not. Weāre just assuming you didnāt bother to read the thread before chiming in, because if you had, you would have different questions. Which shows how much value you put in the ideas and opinions of others in this community. 
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