If you spent more time clarifying your thoughts and less time pointing the finger at others and blaming all of them for misunderstanding you, I think you’d have a more enjoyable time engaging.
And the date is probably one of the most controlled situations we find ourselves in with this happening. Most guys have no idea that we women get flashed, masturbated at, approached and offered money for sex acts while we’re just living our lives. It’s fucking exhausting and leads to a constant low-level fear and sense of vigilance that most white men just won’t ever have to live with, unless they’re in a war zone.
A little empathy would go a lot further than blunt calls of it being fake.
