Sounds rough but doable.
I did the opposite. I had an open marriage (for a brief while), we split up and I was poly for a number of years, eventually living with my primary lover and her husband, and then when my current wife and I got together, we went back to being monogamous. Things change.
Whoever did alter the title, could you please spell @japhroaigâs name correctly? Thank you!
It takes all kinds, and there is no single right way. Well, except for the feghoots.
@jlw is now in the bracket!
I didnât do the original witty title, but I did FTFY because it was bugging me too.
BATHING.
No, but I wouldnât define partaking of coffee or food as being systems of courtship, either.
Would you settle for Bos taurus?
Smells of freshly cooked haggis, peat smoke and rebellion.
Hold on! We havenât even had coffee yet!
Okay, Iâve posted my three best feghoots. I think I can resume what I actually wanted to do today now.
There is a great one a friend wrote about being startled so bad by a sea snake he tossed his pizza in the air. The punch line was something like, âwhen a moonâs in the sky like a big pizza pie, thatâs a morayâ
I dunno. I managed to get two wives that way.
Unless it was just my gifts at sexy time. You never know.
Mine was southpark and bad Eric Cartman impressions.
Food & drink are a default and very low-stakes for everybody. Plus you can talk. If all you want to do is hook up, go to a bar or a club.
I never did well in clubs because my mouth is my biggest asset. 
Talking about sexy time gifts again?
You saw what I did there.
