Pedantic Digressions

Who in 1989 had a summit meeting with Gorbachev that is often taken to mark the “official” end of the Cold War. Guess where that meeting took place.

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To me anguish, angst, and anxiety look like the same word in different languages.

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You could? Well, how much less could you care?

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Kierkegaard bear started it, then Heidegger bear and Sartre bear had to copy him. I don’t know if Nietzsche bear thinks they are being inauthentic.

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Are those the villains in the Tom Hanks movies?

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Is that true?

Examples I can think of from real life don’t seem to match that pattern.

It seems like a narcissist wouldn’t feel comfortable competing with somebody else for the center of attention. In a double-narcissist relationship whichever partner was less successful in the competition would get bored, break it off, and move on.

Fun fact: another lesser-used term for codependence is “co-narcissism”. And yeah, it’s actually very common for them to hook up, but there’s something you should understand about narcissists: they all have their own flavor of “narcissistic food”, as some authors refer to it.

Have you ever heard of narcissists referred to as “emotional vampires”? Well, that’s the thing, any narcissist has a specific type of emotional “food” they crave, and will do practically anything to get it. For some it’s social status. For others its looking like they have a “perfect family”. For still others it’s having work status. Then there’s the ones that just crave generic praise from people (sometimes the origin is important, sometimes not; e.g. from a family member versus a stranger), and then there’s the ones that want to “be the best” at whatever it is they’re doing. And so on, ad infinitum.

Anyway, narcissists tend to have very, very sensitive “emotional radar”, and they’re good at giving people what they want. And who is the most sensitive to getting what they want from others? Right! Narcissists! So two that are capable of “feeding” the other tend to find each other, and you end up in a feedback cycle where they latch on hard initially, then go through phases where one slacks on the “feeding”, the other reacts to that, they have a blowup, then they sort of agree to “feed” each other again, and the cycle continues until/unless one partner finds someone better at “feeding” them than the last partner, and only then breaks away.

Once you recognize the pattern and the variations (like how you sometimes have an overt narcissist with a covert one, whose “food” is being “on the cross” for the other, and usually likes to tell you all about that, all the time, to make sure someone knows what a “saint” they are), it’s insane how obvious it is, and it becomes hard to watch so many people you know going through it.

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Those are actually rectified cubes. They have 14 sides each.

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The D&D nerd in me is deeply disappointed in Star Trek now.

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When you sense the readers are on the verge of exploding from an onslaught of annoying didacticism.

Otherwise, one could simply stick around and watch all the pretty sparks fly about.

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Our first level manager here (and his wife) have ten cats. Ten. Either you or @orenwolf are right. Either way, our manager happens to be The Father of All A-Holes Since the Beginning of Time, so whatever approach you and @orenwolf take, a-hole-nishness should be considered therein, either as a forcing function, or as the result.

Grumpy Cat is actually our sister by another mister.

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I sit corrected.

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The capital of Alaska is Juneau

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True that.

Take it up with the editor of the article. :wink:

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This is like something from a John Oliver segment. “One of these places isn’t even actually a capital city.”

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It would certainly make sense to put the capital in Anchorage, or Fairbanks, and cede the southeast coast to British Columbia or something, but politicians are notoriously apathetic about these things.

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Then maybe you should care less, if you could.