Well into my 40s. I know this day is coming. #humblebrag
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Clickbaity article, complete with cringeworthy visual pun graphic. I canāt wait for āTell us your craziest stories of stuff that happened with boner pills.ā
Oh, no, the nasty man is repressing womenās voices! That must be it. Itās not that it follows an insipid formula with āthe one thing,ā or ā10 worst,ā capsuled, opinion heavy, information shy articles that makes so many shitty websites shitty. Itās the patriarchy holding you down.
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Oh, you silly! Weās only joking, like good friends do! Why canāt you girls take a joke, right fellahs!?
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#Nope.
I read the article.
Everything else is fair game.
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You could think of it as the male version of āThe Vagina Monologuesā if that helps.
Whole lotta mansplaininā up in this figurative beeyatch of a thread!
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Switch the genders and make it about something like vulvodynia then this article would 100% not be on here. And Iām fine with that, because it would be a shitty article. So is this one. Hence my dismissiveness.
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Erm, not really, it doesnāt help. Why am I thinking now about white people who ask why thereās no White History Month?
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Whoa. I totally never realized that. We should make it July or something, one of the 31 day months.
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That makes a good point. It hasnāt done any of us any good, and has brought us to the brink of ecological collapse. Iām hopeful that women being integrated into positions of power is happening quickly enough to bring us back to a more sane, balanced way of living before itās too late. But Iām not optimistic about it.
Iām still not voting for Carly Fiorina.
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Fineā¦ Then instead of complaining about the article, and comparing it to a website you find distasteful (which just happens to be written for and by women), why not engage with the topic at hand. Be constructive and part of the conversation.
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I donāt get it, is this a regular occurrence in the authorās life?
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OK, itās a good point to contribute positively. I will instead of just snarking.
I donāt see why anyone has to pressure another person in a sexual situation, including self-pressure to āperformā or whatever the fuck itās called. Performance anxiety? Last time I thought about it, I recall never having sex on a stage or in front of a camera. Thereās no performance. Itās two people who at least like each other enough to be getting nekkid and one of them is gonna stick something inside someone or at least get very near someone else. Ya feel me?
ED is a sad thing, but nobody needs to make excuses or hurt someone else about it. Nobody needs to make it someone elseās problem.
Iāve had the whiskey dick before. Sure, itās off-putting because when youāre hot-to-trot, you wonder if the chance will ever come again. All sorts of thoughts cross through your mind. But I said, āwell, it aināt happeninā right this moment. We just have to wait. Itās the alcohol. So I gotta stop drinking and we can wait it out and do other stuff.ā Not once have I been with someone who got pissed or even sad about it. And if I was with someone who would have made a big deal out of it, it would have been a very good thing for us not to have sex. Because that kind of behavior and pressure around sex is completely unnecessary. It has to be positive on all levels or what the fuck are you doing it for?
Enough of the mansplainin!!! I gots me some more work to do.
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OK, got it. Hey, am I allowed to say āthank you?ā
Serious question. I have never understood the controversy about it.
