"Cuck"-obsessed conservatives may harbor dreams of being cuckolded

It was in the Fire and Fury book.

ETA: found a screenshot of the page in question:

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Try not to self-rape.

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Ugh, Jeebus Creepus.

Totes believable and not at all surprising, given all the other daily evidence that the current WH occupant is a depraved, sickening monster.

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I’ve seen this floating around the internet lately, and the racial part is just astonishing. Humiliation is just traditional BDSM, but using race as the mechanism is seriously twisted, and I think, harmful.

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See France and porn featuring women from North Africa.

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This needs to be there:

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Not necessarily at all; that’s just a subtype. (Full disclosure, wife is a sex therapist, so I’ve got at least some familiarity with this stuff from second-hand contact, so to speak.)

There seems to be a whole spectrum within cuckolding. The only common thread is, obviously, the woman in the relationship sleeping with other men and the man in the relationship deriving sexual pleasure from it. Sometimes it’s very close to simple polyamory (except that polyamory doesn’t require that the man enjoys it sexually) in that it’s just a long-term “guy on the side” that’s a dating-style relationship without any elements of humiliation or racial overtones.

While the humiliation/racial notes are relatively common, there’s a whole rainbow of kinks in between that you’re not necessarily addressing. Just thought you’d find that interesting!

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Growing up in the buckle of the bible belt (the Texas Panhandle), the most visible establishments were Churches, Bail Bonds, Adult Stores and Strip Clubs. Usually all conveniently located near one another.

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That is what is frustrating hearing “cuck” used ironically by hipster-types, was that the racial subtext was still there, and not being affected by the irony at all.

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Texas has super weird zoning laws or something. I recall seeing a strip club in Dallas next to a Jason’s Deli (office worker type sandwich chain), across the street from an Office Max.

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I always assumed that’s to cater to truckers.

Most Bible Belters already have a sex dungeon at home.

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and sometimes a cigar is just a penis

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Obligatory a/f/:

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much more so ‘or something’

There’s a Jehovah’s Witness video he might want to watch.

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GIven the number of homophobic lawmakers who write laws against that sort of thing then are found with rent boys… it checks out.

Plenty of liberals out there who are better at sex than you and are happy do to your wives, bros. We love crazy women, and we know yours have it in spades.

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I think I know these guys.

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I’ve always thought the pervasiveness of things like “interracial” (meaning involves a black person), incest, cuckolding and childish depictions of women in porn these days is deeply connected to the fact that only people still buying x rated dvds are apparently older white men.

DVD sales still have an outsized influence on the porn business due to porn’s unique piracy issues. And last I saw a map of dirty DVD sales it matched really well with the red on the political maps and the areas where this shit is popular in the porn hub maps.

It’s way more complicated than that. For the US as an example. Black men are highly sexualised and black women aren’t. Asian men are almost considered sexless. While Asian women are hugely sexualised. And what you see in porn is almost exclusively derived from what white dudes get a rise out of.

As an example I remember a similar boing boing thead/article where racialized porn and weird fetishes came up. Apparently the dick size obsession is almost exclusively the purview of white western (especially American) men. Outside the US. And among many US minorities it just doesn’t ever occur to people.

Like a lot of fetishes that sound pretty bad or weird in a flat description. “raceplay” is probably ultimately harmless. A lot of fetishes seem to come from people internalising and sexualising some social dynamic. The incredibly common domination/submission thing is often about acting out or reversing our fucked up gender dynamics.

I think what’s pretty fucked is the particular dynamic we see with this cuckolding obsession and a lot of porn these days. It’s not as if we’re seeing “these two people have a mutually fucked up interest in racialised sex”. We’re seeing a dynamic where “these two people are going to tweak a white man’s racial insecurities so he can get a boner”. And all the ways that becomes fucked up down the ladder.

Porn is only “interracial” if it involves a black person. Never if it involves any other race. Porn featuring only black people is a weird niche. Where as highly racialised “interracial” porn is fairly mainstream. And becoming pervasive enough that it’s actually hard to avoid. Black porn performers are paid less than non black counterparts. But white, Asian, And Latino/a performers are paid more for appearing with them.

So while fetishes with a racial element. And even race play porn is fine I don’t think that’s what we’re seeing. I think we’re seeing racist porn specifically designed to cater to and tweak the sensibilities of racists. It’s not about people enjoying a sexual role play collectively. It’s about a third party who gets off on watching very specific stereotypes played out. To both validate and maybe subvert their very real biases.

Eta: it’s also not as if cuckold porn is what’s popular. It’s specifically racial cuckolding porn. You rare seem to just run across content where women are being cuckolded, or where a black man is being cuckolded. If you find your porn by browsing mainstreamsih professional porn venues. Youll constantly run across just this one kind of cuckold and raceplay porn.

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Also unsurprising: violent homophobes are more likely to harbor homosexual yearnings than other people. Meh.

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