My last comment on this.
I make a point about toxic masculinity (this is what I’ve actually been talking about, if anyone really cares) and its connection to violent fascist movements is not minor, in my mind. We can all talk the big talk about how big evil is evil. But what are we going to do about it after the violence has been done? Big evil starts with little(r) evil, and we need to be aware of all its roots so we can work on them before people like this get radicalized and go off.
Much of the modern fascist movement (possibly all of them, but I’m no historian) seems to draw much of its power by hyping up these two-dimensional masculine ideals. We can’t do anything meaningful about these asshats unless we recognize that the proto-fascist men-should-be-manly types are actually the ones we have to pay attention to: they’re the Proud Boys’ farm team.
Who was Tarrio before he donned the costume? I’m betting he felt like he wasn’t being respected by more manly types, and rather than recognize that he didn’t have to pander to the bros and could instead use his gifts in a real way and gain self-respect, he put on the costume and tried to impress them. See where that got us all.
It annoys me that someone misrepresents what I said, making up all kinds of things that weren’t there, then sets up these strawman arguments so as to fight me on them. To wit, it has been inferred that I meant something along the lines of:
He’s just s dork, so we can just laugh at him and not worry so much about what he’s done
It has been implied that I was:
dismissing him in that way
and that I was:
saying he’s a dork.
NONE of this is what I said, or what I meant, and I challenge anyone to actually quote me to back up this interpretation. I’m not dismissing him, or fascism, I didn’t say he was a dork, I don’t ‘not worry so much about what he’s done.’
Now that we’ve covered what some people insist I meant, I’ll lay out in no uncertain terms what I ACTUALLY MEANT, for the very last time:
I don’t like Proud Boys, and I’m glad he’s going to jail, the longer the better. Fascism is bad. Toxic masculinity is bad, and it feeds into fascism, a pipeline which is also bad. I’m not actually more disturbed by sartorial choices than by attempted coups. Allow me to state for the record: Fascism is worse than wearing sunglasses all the time.
I believe that the relationship between toxic masculinity and fascist movements is a valid observation, and important. You may not be able to tell that I think it’s important, you may not agree that it’s important, but I think it’s important, if that’s okay with you.
I’m gratified that some commenters genuinely understood what I was trying to say (at least when I laid it out in my second comment). It’s a comfort to know I haven’t entirely lost the ability to communicate intelligibly.
To those who don’t understand me, or who think that I didn’t say enough about fascism (one more time: fascism is very bad!), I apologize for the lack of clarity.
For those who think I said too much about sunglasses, baseball caps and dorks, well, you have a point and I respectfully withdraw from this conversation which is clearly too sophisticated and serious for someone as shallow as myself.
ETA: even more context, because there can never be too much