Fuck Today, Continued

Stay safe and I definitely agree with this -

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Thanks. It’s an especially “fuck today” for us, as our three teens decided tonight to tell us how happy they are with Roe being overturned. Big argument, big family fight. Not nearly enough Laphroig in the house.

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Wow. My thanks to her.

If the need arises for support for legal costs etc - let us mutants know.

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It may be time for them to support themselves-and you don’t need to worry about them.

I’m not sure how that comment helps him right now.

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Kids at that age have a way of being contrarian for the sake of being contrarian. I experimented with all kinds of bizarre political philosophies at that age (I was somehow pro nuclear war at some point; I don’t even remember how that came up). In other words, I wouldn’t worry about that too much. The values that matter become clear in one’s twenties.

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Because of course the national body in charge of funding disability support discriminates against disabled employees.

Blackadder

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wow. all of that sounds really hard. maybe they’re also sensitized by the rest of what you all are dealing with, and see that path as some sort of safety for them right now. at school or wherever

im not a parent, so i don’t know what it’s like. i imagine the talking and the fighting is good - even if it’s also the worst. maybe that’s what gets kids thinking: where did i learn that thing? why do i feel that way?

maybe those hard moments - with guidance - is what leads kids to empathy and perspective later

case in point: my family was religious and conservative. they never talked to me. about anything. if they had, maybe i’d be a gop darling. instead, i’m a left wing socialist leaning mutant. so let that be a lesson. parents: always talk to your kids or they’ll wind up a lefty. ( hmmm… i might have lost the moral on this one :cat: )

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Maybe so. It’s a tough discussion. One of those children wouldn’t even have been conceived and born if we hadn’t made the difficult choice with a previous pregnancy. So the entire conversation is painful in ways they cannot possibly get.

I appreciate the supportive comments. It was a rough night. But as the song goes, today is a new day. (At least, I think there’s a song like that. If not there ought to be)

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I think you’re thinking of “Black Hole Sun.”
Just kidding!
Whatever one might think of the band’s lead, “Beautiful Day,” is a helluva pick me up.

And sending some spiritual Laphroig through the internets.

San Francisco Coffee GIF by The Buena Vista

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this is awful…

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I feel your/her pain. VA has not gone down that path yet, but the direction we are headed makes me very nervous. We are also having discussions about what to do in the event of. That sucks for you guys.

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I would argue that now that they’re teenagers, this is EXACTLY the sort of conversation they need to have with you.

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I agree. But that part of the story is not mine to decide to tell.

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Students of Doylestown’s Lenape Middle School protested outside the building on Tuesday, calling on the school to reinstate social studies teacher Andrew Burgess, according to Channel 9. Burgess’ sudden firing came on Friday, shortly after the eighth grade teacher reportedly gave a transgender student, who was being bullied, resources for support outside the district.

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This is in PA. This is not TX or FL, this is PA. It needs a lot more publicity. He did not “preach” LGBTQ, he gave a kid being bullied a resource to seek help. This is a firing offense now?

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That’s where we are in this country right now – fucking fascists everywhere. LGBTQ people are an easy target.

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The order did not evaluate the law on its constitutionality but instead allows the law to go back into effect while the case proceeds in district court, according to a statement from one of the plaintiff groups. The ruling came from a three-judge panel on the 5th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals — which is often considered the most conservative appeals court in the country — and was not accompanied by a written opinion explaining the decision at the time of publication.

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