I’m with @d_r nd @hotel. When we leave on a trip, I leave a check for our vet with the pet sitter just in case the vet needs a partial payment ASAP. I also leave a letter authorizing treatment if I think that it might be difficult to get in touch with us.
Bunny update. Got in touch with owner – she is in Europe vacationing (which I knew was part of her summer so not a shock). She was fine with me taking it to the vet and was grateful that I’d front the payment but said whatever it is let her know. Was able to FaceTime once there (a first for the vet, personally or professionally) and she got to hear the options and decide. Seems there no fracture, so it’s bunny meds and rest and time. If not better by Tuesday we get X-rays (can be tough on bunnies). Owner was very concerned – I was expecting her to say “it’s a class pet – I don’t want to spend a ton of money here”. Didn’t happen. And zso far it’s only cost her $120 and me two hours.
That seems unfair; when someone babysits my kids I expect them to take care of all medical emergencies themselves.
Welp… my step dad passed away last night from pancreatic cancer. He was 68.
Say it with me now, everyone… FUCK CANCER!!!
I’m sorry to hear this, Mindysan33.
FUCK CANCER.
Absolutely fuck cancer. And fuck dying from any causes at only 68.
My dad was only 60 when he died of lung cancer…
It’s not fucking fair, actually…
Yeah, my sister was only 59 (ovarian). Yet Henry Kissinger goes on and on.
And mine was 55 (colon cancer). I thought when my mom died at 87 (cancer) it would’ve been easier. Nope. It just pretty much sucks.
And @d_r… I’m sorry to you both…
I was just reading the thread and @lamaranagram 's bunny issues gave me a sudden & overwhelming memory of dog sitting my sister’s dog. Sis was traveling and incommunicado, on day two the pooch had a massive seizure. I flipped. I knew what to do to keep him safe until the seizure passed (much like you would do with a human) - but is this new? did he eat something? I rushed him to the K9 ER and they basically told me there wasn’t much they could do without thousands of dollars in tests. Onset broken heart. There was no way I could afford that & neither could my sister. I took him home & spent the next week or so I a constant state of neurosis. Turns out, it was an existing condition that she thought she had told me about - he just had some condition which caused him to have seizures from time to time. Glad I didn’t bankrupt both of us to find out what she already knew…
This sudden “full saturation” memory was played with a mote of sadness because he was the first dog to ever outsmart me. I was showing a friend how smart he was and I couldn’t get him to “stay” - turns out, if you started walking away from him when he was sitting on your right and stepped with your right foot first, he would follow, but if you walked away left foot first he would stay. Maan I miss that guy…
…but through all this is that it made me want to call my sis, but I can’t anymore, cuz FUCK CANCER.
Sorry, I just needed to get that out.
BTW @lamaranagram - it is my most sincere belief that whatever problem one is facing it is therefore the most significant problem there is. Particularly if pain is involved, as the pain one experiences is the greatest pain there is. Problems, pain - these aren’t viable candidates for comparison- if you have to solve it or endure it - it matters most of all.
Oh @anon61221983 I’m so sorry.
My thoughts are with you.
FUCK CANCER!
And I’m sorry for your loss.
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Thanks. I missed him a long time (and still do), but I remembered thinking on my 34th birthday that I was a little over one month shy of living more than half my life without him. And I became closer to my mom as a result (I was such a daddy’s girl ), which made her death harder than I imagined.
I hope you feel better soon.
Accurate. One’s profanity, the other’s an obscenity.
Agreed.