Acknowledging somebody’s feelings can be very important. But not something you demand,for example, to somebody you don’t know, at the street, bus, train, etc, and/or when somebody is wearing headphones. Minding there own business. If they have no time or place to listen to you. Walking, cycling, sitting on a bench. Reading a book or paper. And, on, and on.
I’m not even gonna bother to click the link; you shouldn’t judge a book by it’s cover, but if said book is bound in discarded foreskins and old toenail clippings, it’s pretty safe to say I’m not interested in reading it.
I’m gay (and a guy) and in a relationship for the past 20 years so I’ve not had random guys hitting on me in long while.
Last guy that did hit on me I was completely oblivious to and it drove him crazy. Once I realized what was going on I just continued to ignore it, he was into S&M so I felt that torturing him was the nicest thing I could do in that situation.
But surely that’s the most important job of every woman, right?
You are all supposed to be there for him, on the instant, to validate his feelings!
Did you not get the memo? Surely there was a memo about this!
Well of course it is, it’s Ursula! She’s wonderful. (Kevin is really cool, too.) I’m not just saying that because I’ve had dinner with them a few times, although I might be bragging a little because they’re both so cool.
He actually looks a bit like a guy I dated a long time ago. I couldn’t bring myself to follow the link, but if that’s an accurate representation of the material to which that links, I sure as hell wouldn’t date him. (Then again, he did just state that he wouldn’t date me, didn’t he?)